To be honest, when I was in high school, I did such a thing. I knew it was a violation of discipline, but I couldn’t control myself. This may be the nature of most people. Young people love to play. After all, the outside world is more boring. The classes and training are much more interesting.
Just like more than ten years ago, Jay Chou sang in "Sunny Day": "The day when you skipped class, the day when the flowers fell, the one in the classroom, how could I not see it, the disappearing rainy day, I really want to Do it again."
就像十多年前一样，周杰伦（Jay Chou）在《阳光灿烂的日子》（Sunny Day）中唱道：“您跳过课堂的那一天，那朵花落下的那一天，教室里的那一朵，我怎么也看不到，雨天在消失，我真的很想再做一次。”
At present, it is only Tao Qianglong who is a high school student and other six U19 national youth players who violated discipline and went out to drink without authorization. Can this be explained? Two years ago, Zhou Junchen, who was also a high school student, went out privately and contradicted the assistant coach's disciplinary incident. Could it be explained?
the answer is negative. It is very irresponsible to explain that Tao Qianglong and other national youth players violate discipline as being too young, and they can only mature through mistakes. It is very irresponsible. It is also very undesirable to think that the national youth team lacks people and hopes to get rid of it. Students have the responsibility of students, and players have the responsibility of players. Disciplinary violations may be momentary. Don't regret the original ignorance when your youth is over. What's more, the national youth players bear heavier responsibilities, even related to national honor, and they should not be taken lightly. Since they are wearing the five-star red flag jersey, they must bear the responsibility.
More than ten years later, Jay Chou sang in "Waiting for You to End get out of class": "Three years in high school, why did I, why didn't I study hard and didn't get admitted to the same university as you."
This may mean maturity, with more responsibilities and more consideration.
Before this mistake, Tao Qianglong was definitely a "good student" in football.
Due to the unsatisfactory learning of cultural classes, Xiao Tao started to learn football at the age of seven and showed infinite love and great talent. In 2013, he entered from the No.1 Central Primary School in Gulou District, Nanjing (Wulei alma mater) to Shibalidian Middle School, a youth training team network of Beijing Guoan, and successfully entered Guoan 1999 echelon. Two years later, Tao Qianglong handed in his perfect report card. In the "Great Wall Cup" international youth football invitational tournament, he scored 7 goals in 4 games and won the Golden Boot Award; in the 2016 Jiangyin Siguo Tournament, 15-year-old Tao Qianglong jumped to the Chinese U17 team and was selected in the first match. In the game against Iran, he made contributions to the team, and then Xiao Tao quickly became the main force of the 99 national youth. In this way, if it were replaced by the stories of ordinary students, it would be skipping grades and preparing to submit to Tsinghua University.
In the club's youth team, Xiao Tao has been "playing big with small" for a long time, which is very similar to his senior Wu Lei. However, he revealed in the interview that he did not want to be called Wu Lei's successor. "I have liked him (Messi) very much since I was very young, and I saw him playing football can pass several people at once. He is also very humble and low-key off the court, and he is an idol of learning." He thinks that Messi is an idol. To show his own characteristics and use his own way to win the game, it can be seen that Xiao Tao is a young player who takes football seriously and is very confident.
在俱乐部的青年队中，小涛很长时间以来一直在“大打小”，这与他的前辈吴磊非常相似。但是，他在采访中透露，他不想被称为吴磊的继任者。 “自从我很小的时候，我就非常喜欢他（梅西），我看到他踢足球可以一次超越几个人。他在场上也很谦虚低调，他是一个学习的偶像。 ”他认为梅西是偶像。为了展示自己的特点并运用自己的方式赢得比赛，可以看出小涛是一个年轻的球员，他非常重视足球，并且非常自信。
Later, there was a tripartite dispute about Tao Qianglong joining Hebei Huaxia Fortune. We did not waste any ink on the incident. Rumor has it that the Hebei team reported extremely generous signing fees and salary for Tao Qianglong. Tao Qianglong's family felt the other party. Sincerity, they reached a signing agreement with the Hebei team. After a year of dormancy in the reserve team, Tao Qianglong finally made his debut on the stage of the Super League in the 2019 season. In April, he received a pass from Mascherano against the Chongqing team and opened his own game with a header. In the Super League goal account, he played in 18 games throughout the season, harvesting one goal and one assist. To get such an opportunity in the Hebei team, which has no shortage of strikers, Tao Qianglong's starting point is already high.
While playing for the Hebei team, he once said in an interview: "I think there are many places to learn from Mascherano, self-discipline, attitude towards football, Xiao Ma is very self-disciplined in life... it is worth learning from. ." Xiao Ma Ge self-discipline
As for joining the Dalianers, it is Tao Qianglong's admiration for the famous coach Benitez. After all, the Spanish tactician can bring him a training method closer to Europe, which can lay the foundation for the five major leagues in the future. After joining Dalian, Xiao Tao once said, "My dream is to go to Europe to play. The coach of Benitez is one of the best coaches in Europe. To become his player, I can not only adapt to the European football concept in advance... Said that he will help me realize this dream because he has coached many teams in Europe, achieved a lot of success, and has a lot of contacts." Tao Qianglong is very clear about his dream, from his action to join Dalian. Look, he is also struggling in a hard position.
Judging from the storytelling and the interviews conducted by the player himself, Tao Qianglong was generally a talented, hardworking young player with a clear goal and a position to struggle before the violation. Although there is also the urge to show his own, there are even reports that Tao Qianglong is not obedient in the Hebei team, but if he can really understand Messi's humility and Xiao Ma's self-discipline, then he should be better.
However, the mistake of drinking in violation of discipline has become a fact, and all he can do is repent of his mistake.
Many people said that the Football Association double standard, that Tao Qianglong and others were punished lighter than Zhou Junchen. In fact, think about it carefully, the Qingdao team winger back then, after the assistant coach warned him, resolutely chose to insist on the violation of discipline "frivolity boy". Let's put it this way, if Xiao Tao and others were caught skipping classes, then Xiao Zhou would just walk out of the classroom brazenly and without a teacher.
Such behavior is related to Zhou Junchen's more outgoing personality. Whether on the court or off the court, Xiao Zhou is the one who loves performance very much and will perform. Substitute Cao Yun is scheduled to come on stage, daring to make a bold breakthrough to offer assists for Dembaba; in the interview, he has clear thinking and mature words. In his life, his public personality has also been shown. He could not wait to buy a car when he did not have a driver's license. No wonder some teammates joked in private. If he played the main force like Zhu Chenjie, he would have to fly a helicopter to Cambridge. Base. Xu Genbao later warned his beloved that he thought his character would go wrong sooner or later, and it was better to come out late than early, and he could look back while he was young.
At the same time, his violation of discipline is also related to the long-term closed training on Chongming Island. In an interview, he once said, “I used to make mistakes in Chongming. Xu taught me a lot of times. So the first reaction when something went wrong was to hear what he said.” A long-term “student in school”, once Getting out of control usually leads to problems. Zhou Junchen has an outstanding football talent and has never been a fuel-efficient lamp. Perhaps no one knows Xiao Zhou better than Xu Genbao. The master’s comment on Zhou Junchen is: “You have talent, you want to beat, and the future depends on him Myself.” Because of the careful guidance and strict control of Xu's guidance, Zhou Junchen on Chongming Island can play football without distraction. After Shenhua is right, he will face an open world, and no one will help him deal with problems meticulously. Zhou Junchen Some of the character problems will be infinitely magnified.
We have seen many stories about Zhou Junchen's youth and frivolousness, but the story of his ability to actively "reform" out of the shadows is worth learning from Tao Qianglong. Everyone must have had such an experience. When we experience really big events, it must not be particularly happy or sad for a short time, but the whole person with an empty head is very embarrassed, and sometimes even groggy and want to sleep. Later, according to Zhou Junchen's recollection, after he learned of the penalty notice from the Football Association, the whole person also fell into such a state of confusion. After returning to the base, he shut himself in the room and sat alone for three hours.
"Chongming is a closed place. Guidance Xu is the person who carried the sky for you. He will solve anything by himself. He will try his best to protect us." After Zhou Junchen violated discipline during the Bangkok Cup in 2018, He made the first call to Xu Genbao, his mentor to the industry. His football godfather can always point out a clear way to Xiao Zhou, so that Xiao Zhou can "don't hate anyone" while doing his own "reduction". Later, when Shenhua 99-00 echelon went to visit Xu Genbao at Chongming Base, Director Xu also specifically named Zhou Junchen, hoping that he would try to lift the ban as soon as possible: "You have to remind you, why, you have been called a'naughty ghost' since you were a child, and you won't take lessons this time. It won't work!"
While guiding Xu to beat Zhou Junchen, the Shenhua team is also actively helping the lost boy. Young players are most afraid of not playing in the game. The Shenhua team insisted that Xiao Zhou be suspended but not training. Xiao Zhou is in the assistant coach’s position. With the help of active training to maintain the state, the coaching staff specially developed a training method for him to maintain the state, and carried out a 12-minute running special training for his weak physical fitness; under the condition of not breaking the rules, the then head coach Flores Friendlies held abroad also try to make it appear on the stage to maintain the state; the club's senior officials often go to Beijing to report on Zhou Junchen's training and thinking, and strive for the early lifting of the ban.
Zhou Junchen himself worked very hard, increasing the 12-minute running distance from 2,800 meters to 3200 meters, laying the foundation for him to gallop on the sideways in the future. After the ban was lifted, he also played a lot of games in Qingdao team and accumulated rich experience. A good performance. What is even more gratifying is that after Zhou Junchen returned to the National Youth Team, in the 2019 International Football Invitational, Zhou Junchen helped the U20 National Youth score an assist in three games, and he was finally back on track.
More importantly, after the continuous education of "Godfather" Xu Genbao and the club, he realized his problems, experienced hardships, and understood responsibilities. In the words of his return to the National Youth Team: "My experience is definitely more than that of my peers. I have experienced so many things, which is not a bad thing for my career. After this incident, I learned more about how to control myself. Your emotions, then what you should do and what should not be done, you have to control yourself. Experience these things is growth."
At this point, we can’t help thinking that Zhou Junchen has such a good "godfather" who can grasp the general direction of his career, and Tao Qianglong may have to rely on his own efforts to get out of the psychological shadow. Fortunately, Xiao Tao is a Young players with clear goals, I hope they adjust their mental state as soon as possible.
If you know your mistakes, you can correct them. Zhou Junchen wasted half a year and used his outstanding performance to win a turnaround. What is waiting for Tao Qianglong?
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Football players are a very special group. Their careers are very short, and the cost of trial and error is also very high. For Tao Qianglong, the half-year suspension can almost make him lose all of the new season (short game time in the game system) Opportunity to play, once youth is over, you can't come back, and a piece of jade may no longer be able to be carved into a tool.